20 Things You Need To Know If Someone Has Dyslexia

Ever found yourself mixing up words, losing track of a simple task, or feeling there's more to dyslexia than muddled letters on a page? In this podcast episode, Stephen Martin unpacks dyslexia as more than just a reading issue and explores how it can weave into everyday life. He also dispels common myths, shares personal stories, and reminds us that dyslexia often comes paired with huge strengths.

Dyslexia can run in families, remain hidden for years, and show up in ways that look confusing to those around us. Many dyslexics live with self-doubt, while others soar in creative thinking and problem-solving. If you’ve ever suspected you or someone close might have dyslexia, this episode shows how shifting your understanding can help you reclaim confidence and thrive.

What Dyslexia Really Means

Dyslexia isn’t simply about reading or jumbling letters. It can affect the way we process information, remember details, or follow sequences. One vital point Stephen raises is that dyslexia is hereditary. If your parents or grandparents are dyslexic, there’s a good chance you’ll see some of those traits too.

It’s not just about school. For many, dyslexia shows up when reading emails or sorting out an online form. With some people, what might look like forgetfulness is just the dyslexic brain juggling data in a different way. Many of us with dyslexia describe feeling bright but misunderstood. Stephen sums it up best when he says:

“Dyslexia isn’t just about letters on a page. It’s the way your brain filters the world around you. That’s why it can take you on unexpected detours.”

The Hidden Impact on Daily Life

Ever notice how some days you can accomplish anything, while other days tying your shoelaces feels like a feat? That’s typical for many dyslexics. The condition can ebb and flow each day, often leading to self-talk like, “Why was I fine yesterday, but today I’m stuck?”

Stephen emphasises that this variability isn’t laziness, it’s just the ups and downs of a different kind of mind. Dyslexics can be forgetful one minute, then imaginative and laser-focused the next. This mood swing can be stressful, especially when others see it as inconsistency. But understanding it helps you be kind to yourself on those off days.

Visual Thinking: A Different Kind of Superpower

People with dyslexia often picture objects or ideas in their minds more vividly than others. This makes them natural problem-solvers, with a knack for seeing patterns that others might miss. Visual thinking can fuel creativity in art, design, or even entrepreneurial ventures.

It can also lead to misunderstandings in conversation. Often, people who think in pictures need a moment to translate their swirling images into words. If you’re someone who struggles to articulate ideas quickly, it might be because you’re sorting a flood of pictures in your mind.

Misconceptions and Missed Diagnoses

Dyslexia has been labelled a “reading disorder” for so long that some folks with hidden symptoms never consider the possibility they have it. They might breeze through books but can’t organise a shopping list. Others might think they’re “just not good at details” without realising there’s more beneath the surface.

Stephen mentions many people don’t discover their dyslexia until adulthood. By then, it can feel like old habits have become part of your identity. But there’s hope. Awareness is the first step to finding strategies to manage these challenges. If you’ve got ADHD in the mix too, it’s worth noting the two can overlap, making it trickier to pin down where one ends and the other begins.

Growing with Dyslexia: Strong Minds, Strong Lives

Living with dyslexia means learning to work with what your brain does best and managing the tougher parts. While there’s no “cure,” people who embrace their dyslexia can find loads of success in life. From famous entrepreneurs to talented actors, dyslexia is well represented among high achievers.

Beyond any reading trouble lies a brilliant mind that might see solutions from angles no one else dares to consider. It’s about trusting your unique style of thinking rather than forcing yourself into boxes that never felt like a fit. With the right support, anyone with dyslexia can build confidence, resilience, and deeper self-awareness.

• Don’t assume dyslexia can be fixed with reading programmes. Find what resonates with your everyday life.
• Give yourself time to tune into your strengths, whether that’s art, building things, or leading teams.
• Remember that fluctuating performance isn’t failure. You’re wired differently, and that’s okay.
• Stay curious about new tools, apps, or learning methods. Technology is a huge help.
• Explore communities where others “get” your experiences, like online forums or support groups.

Key Takeaways

• Dyslexia is often hereditary, and many adults don’t realise they have it.
• You might think in pictures, which is a big advantage in creative fields.
• It’s not just about reading. Dyslexia can show up in everyday tasks.
• Managing dyslexia is more about adaptation than a quick cure.
• Many successful people have dyslexia and credit it for their achievements.

Feeling a spark of recognition? You’re not alone. This is only the tip of the iceberg. Listen to the full episode (player at the top of the page) to hear Stephen’s personal stories, practical insights, and a few laughs along the way. If you’re looking for more support, visit truthaboutdyslexia.com or join our friendly community on Facebook at facebook.com/groups/adultdyslexia. It’s the perfect space to share wins, struggles, and new coping strategies. Don’t miss out on connecting with a community that truly understands.