A New Job And Building Confidence With Gavin Wake

Have you ever doubted your ability to reach that big career goal, especially if you’ve got a brain wired a little differently? This episode is all about how one man, Gavin, proved that ADHD and dyslexia are no barrier to high-level success. He’s stepped into the role of Principal at a tertiary institution, challenging the idea that any diagnosis sets a cap on your potential.

In this conversation, we talk about imposter syndrome and why it hits us so hard, how to handle nerve-racking interviews, and the power of genuine confidence. We also dig into practical tips for facing the fear that creeps up when you dare to go bigger in life.

The Road to Principal: A Confidence Journey

Gavin’s journey to Principal isn’t a typical overnight success story. He grew up with dyslexia and ADHD, and like many of us, he battled that nagging voice telling him he wasn’t clever enough. At every turn, though, he nudged his limits a little further. He kept aiming higher, even when his doubt said “stop.”

It’s easy to assume top roles aren’t for us, especially if we’re juggling focus or reading challenges. Gavin’s story shows it’s possible to flourish in academia or leadership. There’s no surefire path but taking one small, steady step after another helps, along with letting yourself dream a little bigger. It’s about believing there’s a place for your talents and your unique way of thinking.

Spotlight on Imposter Syndrome

Imposter syndrome is so common in our community that it might feel like it’s written into our DNA. You get that new opportunity or promotion, and then the voice appears: “But what if they realise I’m not as good as they think?” or “What if I mess this up?”

Gavin felt it deeply. He knew he came from a place where written tests and conventional intelligence markers didn’t always work in his favour. Still, he showed up anyway. He discovered that embracing his neurological differences gave him new ways to solve problems, support students, and lead his team.

“You think you’re not worthy, but it’s your differences that often make you the right person for the job.” — Gavin

It’s simpler to fear you’re not enough than to face the unknown of taking on a bigger challenge. But it’s also oddly exciting to walk through that fear and realise you’re already capable, even if you don’t see it at first.

Winning in Interviews

Navigating interviews when you’ve got ADHD or dyslexia can feel like performing on a tightrope. You have to concentrate on not losing track of the question, while also giving solid, concise answers. Gavin unearthed a few tips that might lighten the load:

• Do a mini-rehearsal: Try a mock interview with a friend or mentor. This practice frees your mind to focus on being present instead of worrying about whether you’ll freeze.
• Own your story: A diagnosis isn’t a weakness. If relevant, talk about how your unique processes help solve real problems. Be honest about the challenges but highlight how you adapt.
• Use structure: Keep a simple mental outline. Write key points or use acronyms so you don’t miss essential details.

It’s normal to stumble mid-sentence or forget a word. The point is to show your heart, your resilience, and your results. If you can convey that, you’re doing better than you think.

Building Genuine Confidence

We often hear “fake it till you make it,” but there’s something magnetic about the real thing. Gavin models a humble yet firm belief that he can handle the task. It’s not about standing on top of a mountain shouting “I’m the best!” every morning. It’s more about quietly trusting that who you are is good enough to keep learning, leading, and growing.

Sometimes that means noticing when nerves flare up and letting yourself feel them. Confidence isn’t the absence of anxiety. It’s the willingness to act in spite of it. Ask yourself, “What if I can do this?” Then go do it. Similarly, if a particular skill is missing, you can always learn it. Confidence doesn’t have to be perfect to be powerful.

Where to Next?

If Gavin’s story teaches us anything, it’s that your journey doesn’t stop with a diagnosis. Dyslexia or ADHD might change your approach, but it doesn’t need to limit your ambition. In fact, these differences can be your superpower—something valuable you bring to the table that others might be missing.

You can also go deeper on this topic by catching the replay of our dyslexia and confidence webinar. It’s chock-full of real tips on boosting your self-belief and dealing with those pesky doubts. Nothing’s more satisfying than seeing how a mindset shift can ripple through your entire life.

• Focus on steady progress, not overnight perfection.
• Accept that feeling like an imposter is normal. It’ll pass as you step forward.
• Prepare for interviews with structure and practice.
• See dyslexia or ADHD not as a barrier but as a unique advantage.
• Challenge yourself with new roles or responsibilities to grow real confidence.

Tune in to the full episode above for all the details. You’ll hear Gavin’s personal stories, some laughs, and plenty of honest talk about what it takes to step beyond your comfort zone. Whether you’re aiming for a leadership role or simply trying to expand your comfort zone, you’ll find something here to spark your fire.

Enjoy listening, and keep sharing your wins and your challenges. You never know who you’ll inspire by owning your own journey.