A Story That Changed My Life

Have you ever wondered why sharing a simple idea can lead to baffled looks or misunderstood messages? If so, you're not alone. In this episode, I talk about how dyslexic thinking can shape everyday communication, sometimes in surprising ways.

Dyslexia isn't only about switching letters or struggling to read. It can influence how we process thoughts, speak up in conversations, and interpret information from others. I share a personal story that shows the ups and downs of explaining ideas in a way that truly connects.

Why Dyslexic Thinking Affects Communication

Dyslexic thinkers often juggle many ideas at once. Our minds move fast, jumping between different angles and possibilities. This can be powerful, especially when problem-solving, but it can also mean we skip important details or assume our listeners already know what we're talking about.

When we skip steps, we leave people confused. Our ideas can sound incomplete or rushed. It’s not that we’re incapable of explaining ourselves, it’s that our thoughts often flow faster than our words. That gap can create big communication hurdles.

In the podcast, I share a memory of trying to describe a simple task at work. I filled in the blanks in my mind but forgot to say them out loud. That left my colleague decisively lost. I later realised how much detail I’d left out.

"It's like my brain was playing leapfrog over the details—I knew exactly what I meant, but my colleague only saw half the picture."

The Power of Perspective

One strength of dyslexic thinking is the unique viewpoint it offers. Because we often seek patterns or spot connections others miss, we can shine light on new solutions. The trick is ensuring our imagined ideas reach everyone else.

Seeing things differently helps:

• We can identify shortcuts others filter out.
• We can notice that certain steps aren’t needed or can be reworked.
• We might have a knack for thinking visually, which can spark creativity.

But we need to pause and consider our audience. Who are we talking to? What do they need to hear first? Slowing down our racing thoughts and matching them to our listener’s pace makes our special perspective truly useful.

How to Adapt and Flourish

Adapting to dyslexic thinking patterns often starts with acceptance. It’s easy to get stuck feeling embarrassed when you say the wrong word or forget a key point. But if you recognise the strengths behind these quirks, you can learn to manage the rest.

Here are a few tips:

1. Plan your outline: Before a meeting, jot down main points in the order you want to share them. Keeping these notes visible can prevent missed steps.
2. Slow down: Take a breath before your next sentence. This helps your mouth catch up with your mind.
3. Use visuals: Diagrams or sketches can sometimes speak louder than words. Let pictures show your thought process.
4. Seek feedback: Ask people to summarise what they think you said. Their response might highlight areas you missed.

These small tweaks can build confidence and create clarity. Over time, you’ll start trusting your ability to communicate in your own style.

Finding Strength in Your Story

We all have stories of misunderstood jokes or instructions that sounded clearer in our heads. The truth is, you never know who might relate to your quirky style of expression. Sharing personal experiences is how we connect on a real level. It might feel vulnerable, but it also makes you memorable and authentic.

Dyslexia can be a conversation starter if you let it. It’s not a label that limits you, it’s a clue to how your mind dances with ideas. Some of us avoid all mention of dyslexia or ADHD because we don’t want to be judged, but embracing these differences often pushes you to find new paths forward.

When you’re open about it, those who see the world in a similar way might feel less alone. They may discover how your story resembles their own, and that’s a foundation for great connections.

• Remember you have a strong mind with unique gifts.
• Trust that honesty about your thinking style can deepen relationships.
• Realise that confusion isn’t failure—it's part of growth.

Communication is a two-way street. When you start bridging your thoughts more clearly, others can meet you halfway. The story I share in the podcast highlights the real-life frustration and humour of navigating these waters.

• Clarity takes practice.
• We can all use fresh approaches to explaining ourselves.
• Dyslexia can be a hidden superpower if harnessed well.

Key Takeaways

• Understanding dyslexic thinking starts with recognising faster mental leaps.
• Sharing your perspective can bring fresh insights if you slow down and plan your words.
• Visuals, feedback, and supportive conversations help close communication gaps.
• Embracing your dyslexia builds confidence and inspires connection.

If you’re curious about the full story behind these insights, have a listen to the episode at the top of this page. Tune in, let your mind wander with me, and discover how dyslexia might just empower your own style of expression.