Being Socially Awkward

Have you ever tried to explain something so obvious to you yet others look at you like you've spoken another language? That feeling can be frustrating and it happens to the best of us. In today’s podcast we explore why our minds grasp ideas differently and how to help others see what we see.

This episode focuses on the challenge of making your thoughts clear to others. We look at why certain folks pick up on details instantly while others need more time or a different approach. We also talk about how to stay calm when your explanation lands flat. You’ll come away with practical tips for bridging that gap.

Why Words Can Fail Us

Some of us picture ideas like a movie in our heads. We see images, colours, and shapes. Our thoughts move quickly and sometimes jump around. When we try to tell someone else, we realise we have to slow down and choose the right words.

That’s where it can break down: if your listener is used to very linear thinking, they may not follow your leaps or shortcuts. It’s not that you’re wrong. It’s just communication style.

Crafting Your Explanation

It helps to start by asking yourself how you want the other person to feel or react. Do they need to see the big picture first, or should you give them one detail at a time? Once you know your goal, you can decide how to get them there.

You might also find it useful to combine a quick sketch or a handy example with your words. Some people need a visual spark.

“Ever felt like people don’t get what you’re trying to say? You understand it, but they don’t. That’s what we untangle in today’s session.”

Breaking the Cycle of Miscommunication

Sometimes you can see frustration creeping in on both sides. You’re annoyed that they’re not keeping up, they may be annoyed that you’re going too fast. It’s like two trains passing in the night, each on a separate track.

To fix this, take a breath. Literally stop and calm your mind so you don’t rush. Then, see if you can re-frame your approach. Ask them what they’ve understood so far. You may even try to let them summarise back to you in their own words. That reveals any gap in their understanding.

Closing the Gap

You don’t have to over-explain everything. But if you do see them getting lost, try one of these strategies:

• Use an analogy they already understand
• Compare your idea to a shared experience
• Pause mid-sentence, see if they’re still with you
• Flip roles and let them teach it back to you

Remember that our unique thinking style is a gift. We see connections and patterns others might miss. Communication just needs a little finesse at times.

Key Takeaways

• It’s natural to process thoughts differently, so don’t blame yourself.
• Visual metaphors can bridge big communication gaps.
• Slowing your pace helps others keep up without feeling rushed.
• Encouraging feedback reveals if they’re on the same page.

These are just a few highlights. There’s so much more to share in the full episode, which is all about turning “they don’t get it” moments into genuine communication breakthroughs.

Ready to dive deeper? The podcast player is right at the top of this page. Give it a listen and discover more ways to connect minds and hearts.