Controlling Your Comfort Zone

Sometimes we stumble on an insight when we least expect it. The other night, I visited my dad, and our chat turned into a brainstorm about anxiety and comfort zones. We're both dyslexic, so conversations can go in many directions: we either think in perfect unison or clash like chalk and cheese. This time, we hit on something that felt worth sharing, especially if you’ve ever wondered why anxiety can feel strange and yet hint at growth.

In this episode, we explore how a small tweak in how we see anxiety can open up an entirely new way to navigate our comfort zones. I’ll also talk about why being dyslexic can supercharge creativity around these topics, and how you can experiment with similar ideas in your own life. Let’s dive in.

Why Anxiety Often Feels Like a Brick Wall

Ever noticed how anxiety creeps in right when you’re about to try something scary or new? It can feel like slamming into a brick wall, so it’s tempting to stop and run back to safety. My dad and I got chatting about how that “brick wall” is actually made of stories we’ve told ourselves for years.

Anxiety usually shows up when we’re taking a risk or stepping into the unknown. It signals there’s a part of us that sees discomfort, so it shouts “Wait, are you sure?” Yet, it might be exactly the sign we need to push forward.

A Fresh Take From Two Dyslexic Minds

When you toss two dyslexics together, it’s a recipe for off-the-wall analogies and shared “Ah-ha” moments. My dad and I started bouncing ideas around.

“Anxiety isn't always a bad thing—sometimes it's a sign we're on the verge of something great.”

That quote from Dad resonated with me. We realised it’s about seeing anxiety as a signal of potential rather than a fear to squash. If we sense that uneasy feeling, we might be close to discovering a new skill, direction, or outcome.

Expanding Your Comfort Zone Step by Step

Feeling anxious can also mean your comfort zone is stretching. Instead of viewing it as a sudden jump, imagine small steps. You don’t have to leap into the deep end right away, especially if you’re juggling dyslexia, ADHD, or other differences.

Try this approach:

• Pick something that feels just outside your usual routines, like speaking up in a meeting.
• Break it into small steps. Do one tiny bit at a time.
• Sense the anxiety. Ask yourself if it’s pointing to a possible win or if you really need to hold back.
• Reward yourself for trying. Even if it’s not perfect, you’ve made progress.

These small steps reinforce the idea that anxiety is the guardrail telling you your comfort zone is expanding.

Practical Strategies to Keep Going

Some days, you might feel unstoppable. Other days, your mind does flips and you wonder if you can handle the pressure. Here are a few ways to navigate those ups and downs:

• Label Your Anxiety: Give it a name or visual. Is it a little goblin perched on your shoulder? If you can identify it, you can decide if you should listen or push on.
• Create a Brain Dump: Jot down everything swirling in your head. Offload the chaos onto a page so you can look at it with fresh eyes.
• Seek Dyslexic Allies: If you’re dyslexic, find someone who understands your unique wiring. Sharing ideas can spark solutions that might never pop up alone.
• Celebrate Micro-Wins: Give yourself a pat on the back for the smallest breakthroughs. You don’t have to conquer a massive hurdle to feel proud.

The point is to normalise anxiety as part of growth. Instead of crushing it, see if it holds a message about what you need next.

Key Takeaways

• Anxiety can be a sign you’re on the brink of something worthwhile.
• Clever small steps can stretch your comfort zone without overwhelming you.
• Our dyslexic minds can reframe fear as an invitation to grow.
• Practical tools, like brain dumps and micro-wins, make stress easier to handle.

Ready to hear more? Give the full episode a listen to capture all the stories and practical examples we covered. It might just spark your next leap forward.

Go on, hit play at the top of the page and let me know what you think. I’d love to hear how you’re stepping beyond your comfort zone.