Get Past The How And Own Your Process

Have you ever felt like your brain lives in a different dimension? Dyslexic thinkers often dwell on the outskirts of conventional logic, which can be both liberating and puzzling. In this episode, we explore what happens when we try to follow neurotypical methods. We also ask whether it’s time to trust our own waves of creativity instead.

This conversation examines how many of us have been taught “the right way” to do things by those who don’t share our dyslexic wiring. We discuss letting go of that and tuning into our own minds to get what we really want. You’ll hear about practical mindset shifts, real-life stories, and steps to help you embrace your dyslexic gifts.

Embracing the Dyslexic Perspective

We often hear “think outside the box,” yet as dyslexics, we’re not just stepping outside it. We’re making ourselves at home there. Our minds are wired to explore different angles, spot patterns, and connect dots that others may miss.

“As Dyslexics we don’t just think outside the box, we kind of live there. It’s why we love meeting other dyslexics as it’s like we are all tuned into the same wavelength.”

When we share space with other dyslexics, we feel seen and understood. That sense of understanding can motivate us to trust our uniqueness and move forward with our own methods.

Moving Beyond “How”

For much of our lives, we’ve been shown how to do things in rigid, linear ways. We were told we had to do it like everyone else—no scribbles on the side of the page, no skipping steps. But that never quite fit with how our brains want to work.

The question is: how long do we keep trying what doesn’t feel natural? Maybe there’s another way—our way. The moment we stop forcing ourselves into a mould and begin following our intuition, we discover renewed confidence.

• Question the “rules” you’ve been taught
• Identify where your mind naturally wanders
• Experiment with your own techniques

Trusting Your Creative Mind

Dyslexics excel at creating connections between seemingly unrelated things. We intuit ideas and solutions before we can explain them. This can feel messy, but that “chaos” often leads to breakthroughs. It’s about trusting your first instinct and letting it guide you to something amazing.

Try giving yourself room to think aloud or jot messy notes. Revel in the parts that might confuse others because that’s your natural spark in action. This approach works for brainstorming, problem-solving, or simply finding your next step in life.

Thriving Together

While it’s essential to trust our instincts, we also flourish when we unite with others on the same wavelength. Sharing insights means we’re not alone, and it helps reinforce that our approach has value. That camaraderie gives us permission to keep evolving our ways—and to help others see the brilliance behind our quirky processes.

Consider connecting with online groups or local meetups if you haven’t already. These communities often provide fresh angles on learning, working, and living well with dyslexia. And they remind us that our path, while different, is completely valid.

• Expand your network of dyslexic thinkers
• Share resources and success stories
• Encourage each other to experiment

Key Takeaways

• Living “outside the box” can be an advantage if we nurture it.
• Rigid how-tos can stifle our natural creativity.
• It’s vital to experiment with what makes sense to our dyslexic minds.
• Community support empowers us to be bold in our approach.

If you’d like to hear the full discussion and discover more tips for embracing your dyslexic mind, be sure to listen to the episode above. You’ll hear personal stories, practical advice, and a dash of humour—plus a deeper dive into why it’s so important to trust yourself.

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