How Do You Tell Someone They May Have Dyslexia? Try This...

Have you ever had a moment when everything just clicks into place? That’s what happened when I finally realised what dyslexia truly meant for me, and how it shaped my life. In this episode, I share how that eye-opening discovery led me on a bit of a mission to spread the word—but it didn’t exactly work out how I expected.

In this conversation, we explore where that excitement came from and why it sometimes lands with a thud. We also talk about practical ways to recognise dyslexia in others, how to avoid pushing too hard, and why an honest approach can make all the difference. With Dyslexia Awareness Day and Week arriving in October, there’s no better time to shine a spotlight on these lessons and help others feel supported.

The Moment the Penny Dropped

When I was around 32, I had a sudden realisation about my dyslexia. It wasn’t just about reading struggles or spelling mistakes. It was deeper—moving beyond the usual assumptions and getting to the core of how my mind works.

“I felt like I’d loaded up an awareness gun and was firing it off, telling everyone I knew with a hint of dyslexia, ‘Hey, you’ve got it too!’”

That wave of insight excited me. I wanted to share it with everyone, especially anyone I suspected was on a similar path. But telling people they’re dyslexic when they’re not ready to hear it can come off like you’re just labelling them. Turns out, folks need space to reach that conclusion at their own pace.

Why Awareness Matters

Dyslexia isn’t a one-size-fits-all challenge. It affects how we process language, time, and sometimes even the way we organise thoughts. Awareness is like flipping a light switch in a dark room. Without it, we might stumble or blame ourselves unnecessarily. Once we’re aware, we can find better tools, ask for support, and feel less alone.

Raising awareness doesn’t require a bullhorn. It’s often more effective to:

• Listen to what someone is struggling with before you suggest solutions.
• Share your own experience rather than telling them what to believe.
• Gently offer resources—like books, podcasts, or websites—so they can explore on their own terms.

Common Missteps (I Made Them Too)

When I first started spreading the word, I came on too strong. I’d see signs of dyslexia everywhere and jump right in with labels. People often got defensive or confused. I forgot that each person’s journey unfolds differently. Some don’t want to be told. Others worry about the stigma.

I’ve learned that it’s better to share personal insights rather than dish out unsolicited advice. And if someone doesn’t want to talk about dyslexia, it’s best to respect that boundary. It can be tough holding back enthusiasm, but offering a kindness-first approach can open more doors in the long run.

Staying Supportive, Not Pushy

Support takes many forms. Sometimes it’s a casual mention of a new tip or technology that’s helped you. Other times it’s a pep talk about mindset. People come around when they’re ready.

1. Keep it positive: Celebrate small wins like reading a page without skipping lines or organising tasks in colour-coded lists.
2. Encourage them to explore: Show where to find tests or helpful online communities, if they’re interested.
3. Offer understanding: Remind them it’s not about laziness or lack of intelligence—dyslexia is simply a different way of processing information.

With Dyslexia Awareness Day and Week approaching in October, consider how you can share your own story. Awareness starts with personal connection, and you never know whose life might change because you opened up.

Community and Confidence

It’s empowering to know you’re not alone. The dyslexia community is full of bright minds and creative spirits. Gatherings, online groups, or simply chatting with a friend can spark new insights. Lean into laughter, share stories of personal wins, and let others realise they’re not in it alone.

Once you see your unique thinking style as an advantage rather than a curse, you start opening up to new possibilities. Confidence grows, and you might even feel inspired to help others find their way.

• A supportive network helps you push through tough days.
• Sharing stories can normalise common struggles and triumphs.
• Celebrating each milestone builds resilience for the road ahead.

Main Takeaways

• True awareness starts with understanding your own story before sharing with others.
• People need room to discover dyslexia for themselves—pushing too hard can backfire.
• Empathy and kindness go a long way when offering help or resources.
• Community and honest conversation are key to lasting confidence.
• Dyslexia Awareness Day and Week is the perfect time to speak up and show support.

Curious to hear more about these insights and stories? The podcast episode is right at the top of the page. Give it a listen and let the conversation help you see new perspectives on dyslexia. Share it with a friend too—you never know who might need an encouraging word today.