Removing Emotional Triggers (This Worked For Me)

Do you ever feel stuck, like you’re carrying a heap of emotional baggage you can’t quite shake? You’re not alone. In this episode (player above), I chat with specialist Andrée Kenny about a life-changing process I’ve been experimenting with that’s helped me handle my tricky emotions in a whole new way.

If you’re wondering why these emotional hurdles keep popping up, or how to finally get relief without feeling overwhelmed, this conversation might just hold the key. Below, I’ll share a few highlights of what we covered, plus a special offer from Andrée.

Why Emotional Challenges Are So Common

Many of us face emotional challenges because our brains are wired to react strongly to stress. Dyslexia and ADHD can intensify these reactions, leaving us feeling frustrated when life throws curveballs.

We discussed how past experiences can shape our mind’s ‘default’ responses. Sometimes our emotional toolbox feels empty, so when something triggers us, we struggle to cope. Fear of judgement or not wanting to seem “weak” can make it even harder.

The good news is that emotional challenges are normal. They often show up simply because our minds try to protect us. Learning a few new techniques can help us break the cycle.

The Approach That Changed Everything

I’ve been working closely with Andrée to figure out a gentle, yet powerful, method to tackle the emotional rollercoasters. She’s helped me see that our emotions aren’t the enemy — they’re signals that tell us where healing might be needed.

One idea we talked about is letting go of shame around asking for help. We can’t solve every problem on our own. When we reach out, we discover new perspectives that completely shift our mindset.

“Emotions don’t have to control you. They’re simply pointers that guide you toward clarity.” — Andrée Kenny

This realisation has been huge. I no longer see my emotional waves as failures. Instead, I can take a beat, reflect on what’s happening, and then choose a calmer response.

Inside Our Work Together

What does it look like to work through these challenges? When I spoke with Andrée, she walked me through a few steps:

• Identify the Trigger: Figure out what set off the emotional wave.
• Name the Feeling: Pinpoint whether it’s fear, anger, sadness, or something else.
• Pause and Breathe: Take a conscious break from the stress. Let your body slow down.
• Reframe the Situation: Ask yourself if there’s another way to interpret what’s happening.
• Celebrate the Progress: Notice small wins. This boosts your morale for next time.

Of course, we also talked through the deeper stuff, like healing past wounds that keep bubbling up. Having a specialist who can see the bigger picture is invaluable. It’s a bit like having a co-pilot who spots potential problems on the radar so you can adjust your flight path early.

How You Can Get Started

If you’re ready to explore a better way of handling emotional ups and downs, Andrée’s offering five discounted spots for a first appointment. It’s a chance to dip your toe in and see if her approach is a good fit. She can help walk you through your unique priorities — no cookie-cutter solutions.

You can find out more details here: https://go.truthaboutdyslexia.com/arc-offer

Even if you’re not sure, chatting with an expert is often the best first step. Sometimes just hearing a caring voice is enough to lift that heavy feeling off your shoulders.

Key Takeaways

• Emotional challenges are common when you have a busy mind or neurodiverse traits.
• Working with a specialist can offer new ways to manage old patterns.
• Shame and guilt often keep us from asking for help when we need it most.
• Making space for our emotions leads to healthier coping strategies and personal growth.

If you’re curious to learn more, give the full episode a listen. The podcast player is at the top of this page. It’s a deep dive into what’s been working for me — and it might just spark some positive shifts for you too.