Striving To Be Better

We often chase big dreams, then feel stuck when reality sets in. This can be especially tough for dyslexic minds, which are wired to see grand visions before the details. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed or like you’re failing at your own goals, you’re not alone.

In this episode, I share how I used to set huge objectives, only to end up frustrated. We explore why this happens and how to shift into smaller, more practical steps. Keep reading if you’ve been wrestling with any ‘too big to measure’ plans, or just want to find a simpler way to make progress.

Spotting Overambitious Goals

It’s so easy to get caught up in an exciting idea. Our brains love novelty and can trick us into thinking bigger is always better. Then we realise that we’ve bitten off more than we can chew.

I used to set targets that stretched so far into the future, I couldn’t see how to start. You may know the feeling: a million tasks swirling in your head, no plan, and no energy left. Recognising that pattern is the first step to freeing yourself.

The Dyslexic Mindset & The Failure Trap

Being dyslexic means we’re wired for creativity, but it also means traditional goal-setting can feel unnatural. We latch onto large visions, then our minds spin in circles trying to make them real.

“I loved the rush of a big mission, but the bigger it got the more overwhelmed I felt.”

Many of us end up feeling like failures, even though we were just thinking outside the box. The trick is turning that creative energy into achievable chunks.

Practical Tips for Setting Realistic Goals

We don’t have to stop aiming high, but we do need a clearer strategy. Here are a few ways to keep your big dreams from crushing you:

• Break it down: If it’s a six-month goal, think in weekly or even daily milestones.
• Use mini-wins: Celebrate small achievements so you feel confident and motivated.
• Get support: Share your goal with someone who can keep you on track.
• Learn to pivot: If it’s all too much, don’t be scared to adjust your aim.

It’s not about lowering your standards. It’s about making your dreams something you can actually do.

Building Confidence One Step at a Time

Confidence starts to grow when we see tangible progress. Each little win rewires our thinking, reminding us we’re capable. It’s a spiral that feeds itself: small success leads to more energy, which leads to bigger but still realistic targets.

We’ve got to give ourselves permission to experiment and fail forward. No massive leaps are needed. Sometimes we just have to take the next step, then the next, until the big picture comes together.

• You can aim high but still think small and manageable.
• Your dyslexic mind is wired for vision, not failure.
• Chunking down your dream makes it easier to act on.
• Small wins build the confidence you need to keep going.

If you want to hear more, the full episode player is at the top of this page. For a chance to be featured, visit Truth About Dyslexia. Don’t let daunting goals stop you. Start small, keep moving, and watch what happens.