Surviving Survival More (This Is A Goodie)

Do you ever feel like your mind is on high alert, ready to jump at the smallest threat? Survival mode has a way of taking over. It's tiring, but it doesn't have to stay that way. In this quick podcast, we explore how dyslexia can dial up the stress, and we look at a new perspective for going forward.

The key takeaway is that the dyslexic mind often clings to what's familiar because it's trying to stay safe. When you live in that zone, you might freeze, forget your strengths, or run away from anything unknown. Join me in this brief recap as we unpack why survival mode happens and how you can break free.

What Survival Mode Really Is

Our brains are wired to protect us from danger. The trouble is, sometimes we see threats that aren’t there. When you're dyslexic, you can be cautious about taking risks because fear of failure might feel stronger. This triggers a fight-or-flight response even when there's no real reason to panic.

Your mind is trying to help, but it can keep you locked in the same thought loops. Instead of growing, you end up living in a cycle of worry or self-doubt. Recognising this pattern is the first step to changing it.

Why Dyslexia Makes It Louder

Dyslexia can bring unique challenges at work or with daily routines. You might need to try different systems or strategies. That extra effort can still feel small compared to the lingering sense of “I’m not good enough.”

“Your mind is wired to keep you safe, not to help you thrive if you don't train it differently.”

Over time, this feeling of not fitting in can feed your survival mode. It whispers, “Don’t risk too much. Don’t speak up. Keep your head down.” But those thoughts can hold you back from discovering what you’re capable of.

Reframing Survival Mode

Survival mode isn’t a permanent state, even though it can seem like one. The moment you notice yourself stuck in fear or tension, see it as a sign. It’s a clue that your mind needs fresh input or a different angle.

• Recognise your triggers. Is it public speaking, a new task, or a changing routine?
• Ask yourself if you’re truly in danger. Often, you’re not.
• Remind yourself that fear is a normal emotion, but it doesn’t define you.

Once you identify these moments, you can gently pivot your thinking towards possibility instead of panic.

Practical Steps to Step Out of the Loop

Don’t wait for everything to be perfect. Small steps or shifts in routine are easier to handle than one massive leap. Here’s what you can try:

1. Give your Fear a Voice. Write down or speak aloud what’s bothering you. Seeing or hearing it clearly can reduce its power.
2. Schedule Pauses. Take breaks to breathe or stretch. These mini-resets help you clear your head when stress creeps in.
3. Share your Experience. Talk to someone who understands dyslexia. Their perspective might remind you that you’re not alone.
4. Celebrate your Wins. Even if it feels small, every step builds your confidence.

Finding Confidence in the Chaos

If you truly get stuck, step back and ask yourself: “Am I pushing too hard?” Sometimes we take on too much to prove we’re worthy. That often backfires and keeps us in an anxious loop. A slower, more mindful approach can help.

Allow yourself to explore mistakes as learning points. Dyslexia doesn’t have to be a limitation—it can be a creative edge when harnessed right. Survival mode is a sign that you could use a fresh challenge, not a cause to run back into your shell.

• Survival mode is your brain’s way of trying to protect you.
• Dyslexia can amplify fears or self-doubt.
• Reframing your thoughts reduces panic and boosts clarity.
• Small, consistent steps are better than giant leaps.
• Connecting with others who understand dyslexia can lighten the load.

Ready for more practical insights? Listen to the full episode at the top of this page. It’s under ten minutes, but it might spark an important shift in how you view your dyslexic mind. Give it a try and let me know what you think!