Take Less Advice

Have you ever experienced that sudden jolt of clarity where everything falls into place? Sometimes it happens when you’re least expecting it, like an out-of-the-blue insight that spins your world in a new direction. In this episode, I explored one of those moments, and it was all about unlocking more freedom for dyslexics.

In the podcast, I talked about what led me to this powerful realisation. I also shared how I plan to build on it, hoping it sparks ideas for everyone who’s on a similar path with dyslexia. Below is an overview of what we covered, plus some practical pointers to keep you motivated.

What Sparked This Realisation

I’d been wrestling with the feeling that something was missing. It’s easy to slip into autopilot and think you’re doing all you can. Then a small incident flips everything around. That’s what happened when I was chatting with a friend who reminded me that I’m not here to fit into the “normal” way of doing things. I’m here to forge my own path.

That chat felt like a permission slip to stop doubting myself. Suddenly, I saw how I’ve been focusing too much on my weaknesses. My energy was going into fixing what I thought was wrong, instead of investing in what I naturally do best.

Why This Matters

Dyslexia can sometimes feel like you’re carrying extra baggage. You might believe you have to do everything people with a more “typical” mind do, only better. That’s not always the best approach. You have unique gifts—creativity, out-of-the-box thinking and the ability to see links others might miss.

When you centre your life on those strengths, you find more room to breathe. That shift isn’t just about having a better day. It’s about building a life that respects how your brain is wired, so you can grow without feeling chained to old expectations.

How I Plan To Build On It

I realised I needed to make time to reflect on what really fires me up. That might be diving into a new project or turning an interest into a side hustle. Instead of pushing these to the background because they don’t look like “traditional” work, I’m making them core to my plans.

I’m also choosing tools that keep me on track without boxing me in. Technology can be huge here, so I’ve been experimenting with apps designed for visual thinkers. They make it simpler to map out my ideas and keep track of everyday tasks. No more forcing myself into methods I hate.

“When we focus on what we’re already good at, we take the weight off ourselves and discover just how much we’re truly capable of.”

Practical Ideas You Can Try

If you’re feeling that same pull to break free and live more authentically, here are a few tips that might help:

• Identify Peak Moments: Write down times when you felt most energised or in flow. Spot the patterns and plan more of those into your week.
• Find a Support Network: Connect with people who understand. Keeping your discoveries to yourself can make it easy to slip back into old habits.
• Use Tools Wisely: Experiment with apps that let you draw, record voice notes or visually organise ideas. Pick what fits best, then adapt as you grow.
• Set Realistic Goals: Aim for quick wins. Spreading yourself too thin you might stop before you even begin.

The Journey Ahead

I’m excited about where this could lead, for me and for anyone else who resonates with that need for freedom. Dyslexia doesn’t have to be a cage. It can be the spark that lights a fire under the right parts of our lives. Sometimes the best thing we can do is give ourselves space to explore, fail, learn and stand back up.

I used to think I’d have to stick to someone else’s blueprint. Now I’m giving myself room to design my own. That’s what this realisation was all about—letting go of what everyone else might think so I can embrace who I am and what I’m drawn to create.

• Focus on your strengths, even if they feel unconventional.
• Don’t be afraid to test new tools or approaches.
• Reflect often and revisit what makes you tick.
• Share your journey; it lessens the pressure.
• Remember dyslexia can be a base for growth, not a barrier.

If you’re curious to learn more, the podcast player at the top of this page has the full story. Give it a listen when you can—I dig deeper into how this mindset shift came about. I hope it sparks an idea or two for your own journey.