The Right Decision?

Have you ever wondered if there’s such a thing as a truly “right” decision? Sometimes it feels like we’re stuck in out-analyse mode, hoping to find a magical path that guarantees no regrets. In this episode, I explored a new perspective that quietened my anxious thoughts and offered a gentle way to see decision-making mistakes as part of the journey.

When you’re dyslexic, you sometimes sense the world from unique angles. You might spot possible outcomes that others miss or get overwhelmed by the fear of making a wrong turn. This episode dives into that tension and shows how we can lower anxiety when faced with life’s crossroads.

Why We’re Obsessed With “Right” Decisions

A lot of us spend ages wondering if we’re doing the correct thing. Society trains us to believe there’s a single best choice, like a gold medal for how we live. That pressure piles on extra stress, especially if we’re wired to overthink.

However, decisions aren’t test scores. They often include unpredictable twists, and what seems good today might look different tomorrow. The chase for “right” can become a distraction from simply listening to our instincts.

“When we obsess over the ‘right’ answer, we forget to see the value in each lesson along the way.”

A Shifting Perspective

Last night I had a moment while my mind pinged with restless energy. I challenged the idea that there’s only one correct option. Instead of treating a choice like a permanent, irreversible event, I viewed it as a stepping stone. That shift took the heaviness off my shoulders.

We tend to punish ourselves for not having all the facts. Yet most real-life decisions play out in unknown territory. If we experiment with a viewpoint that each decision helps us learn, it becomes less about right or wrong and more about “what’s next?”

Managing Anxiety With a Dyslexic Brain

Worry often hits me hardest at night, when I’m meant to be sleeping. If that’s familiar, you’re not alone. The dyslexic mind can keep flipping scenarios in search of the perfect solution. But we can tweak our stories to calm the waves.

Here’s what I tried:

• Remind myself of past decisions that turned out fine, even if they felt scary at first.
• Focus on one next step, not the entire giant puzzle.
• Speak out loud. Hearing your doubts can deflate their power.

It’s a bit like radio static. Once you recognise you can switch the station, you start to see you have control over how you interpret feelings.

Embracing “Good Enough” and Moving Forward

Since there’s no one-size-fits-all choice, maybe it’s time we let ourselves off the hook. We can learn from every detour. Giving ourselves permission to make a move, even if it isn’t “perfect,” builds confidence and momentum.

“Good enough” isn’t about lowering standards. It’s accepting that we can’t always predict results. We do our best with the information we have and allow space for the future to unfold. That sense of ease helps courage grow.

Here’s how you might put it into practice:

1. Create a small experimental mindset. If you pick a path and it doesn’t feel right, adjust and keep going.
2. Track any positive outcomes that come from making imperfect decisions. You’ll find more than you expect.
3. Share your thoughts with someone who gets you. Even a quick chat can reduce the pressure.

Key Takeaways

• Decisions are messy, not perfect, and that’s OK.
• Shifting your mindset from “right or wrong” to “next step” lowers anxiety.
• Dyslexics often worry about best outcomes but benefit from seeing choices as experiments.
• Speaking fears out loud helps tame them.
• “Good enough” can be a powerful strategy for self-kindness.

If you’re ready for a deeper dive, the full podcast episode is waiting at the top of this page. Give it a listen for extra insights and practical tips. Let’s embrace being learners on this path together, rather than perfectionists. Your next choice might be the one that teaches you what you need to know.