Charging What Your Worth - The Dyslexic Struggle With Value

Do you ever feel anxious when someone asks about your prices or salary expectations? You’re not alone. Many adults with dyslexia find it challenging to stand up for their financial worth. In this episode, we explore how dyslexia can affect confidence around money and discuss ways to break free from undervaluing ourselves. You’ll discover practical steps and mindset shifts that make a real difference.

Valuing yourself isn’t just about earning as much as possible. It’s more about feeling comfortable with what you charge, what you’re paid, and knowing you deserve fair treatment. Whether you’re running a business or working for someone else, this podcast reminds us that recognising our own value changes everything.

Why We Struggle with Valuing Ourselves

If you’ve ever felt awkward asking for a raise or setting a fair rate for your products, you’re in good company. Dyslexia often comes with self-doubt, especially when it comes to finances. The traditional world tells us to follow systems and structures that don’t always suit our dyslexic thinking style.

We might also worry about being judged for our reading and writing challenges, so we keep our heads down. That can lead to accepting a salary that’s too low or undercharging just to fit in. In the podcast, I mention how this can end up burning you out or leaving you frustrated.

“It’s not just about how much money you make, it’s about knowing you deserve to be seen and heard, especially when it comes to your own value.”

This sense of deserving is important. When you realise you bring unique strengths to the table, you begin to see how underselling yourself hurts you and the people you serve.

Common Pitfalls and Beliefs

We often take on limiting beliefs that make us question our worth. These beliefs might sound like, “I’ll never be good with numbers,” or, “No one will pay me that much.”

Dyslexia doesn’t stop you from having successful money conversations. But old experiences can feed the idea that you’re not equipped to handle these situations. Here are a few pitfalls I’ve noticed:

• Comparing yourself to others who seem more “qualified.”
• Fearing rejection when you propose a rate or ask for a raise.
• Settling for less because it feels safer than facing potential pushback.
• Taking on tasks that leave you little time to focus on what you do best.

These stories keep us stuck. Recognising them is half the battle. You’re allowed to want a comfortable financial life. You’re allowed to ask for more.

Practical Ways to Shift Your Money Mindset

Changing how you view your value requires small steps, not a massive leap. Instead of trying to transform overnight, focus on creating daily habits. A few strategies might help you create a healthier relationship with money and your own worth.

1. Track Your Wins: Write down moments when you do great work or receive positive feedback. Seeing these in black and white can help offset negative beliefs.
2. Seek Realistic Comparisons: Don’t compare apples and oranges. Find people doing similar work and see how they value themselves. You might be pleasantly surprised by how your rates stack up.
3. Practise Saying Your Worth: Rehearse stating your prices or salary expectations in a mirror. It sounds silly, but it builds confidence.
4. Focus on Outcomes: Remind yourself of the benefits you provide. You’re not just selling a product or service. You’re offering results and transformation.

You can’t wave a wand and fix low self-esteem, but simple actions put you on the right path. Small victories give you the courage to keep going.

Overcoming the Mental Blocks

It’s one thing to change your strategy around money, but how do you handle the emotional side? Emotions often hold us back more than any lack of skill. We all battle imposter syndrome or fear of failure from time to time.

As dyslexics, our minds race at a hundred miles an hour, cycling through imagined scenarios of rejection. Working on mindset is crucial. One approach I mention in the episode is journalling. Write down how you feel about money. Ask yourself where that belief comes from. Then question if it’s really true.

Getting support can also make a huge difference. Talk to like-minded dyslexics in a community who understand your experiences. On our Private Facebook Group, we often share wins and questions to keep each other motivated. It helps to know you’re not alone in this journey.

If you want more hands-on tools, check out our Mini-Course - The To-Do List For Dyslexics. It focuses on practical ways to manage tasks, stress, and mindset. It might be the next step if you’re feeling overloaded.

And remember, if you’d like to share your dyslexia story, head to this link to be on the podcast. You never know who might need to hear what you’ve got to say.

Key Takeaways

• Don’t let old beliefs stop you from asking for fair pay.
• Recognise the unique perspectives and creativity you bring.
• Spend time tracking your wins to counteract negative voices.
• Community and support help break down mental barriers.
• Small steps lead to lasting confidence with money.

When you realise your true worth, everything begins to shift. You see new opportunities and find the courage to demand what you deserve. It might feel strange at first, but it can truly transform how you view your skills and your future.

If this resonates with you, listen to the full episode at the top of the page. You’ll hear personal insights, stories, and extra tips that could make a real difference in your life. You’re worth it.