Does Dyslexia Run In The Family?

Have you ever suspected that something running through your family tree might explain a few quirks? Dyslexia often shows up across generations, even when no one realises it's there. In this episode, we explore what happens when you discover dyslexia in yourself, then spot it in a parent who never had a clue.

We look at the speaker’s journey of self-discovery and how dyslexia explained so much about their father’s blunt style and tendency to withdraw socially. It’s a story of hidden traits that only made sense once dementia and common misconceptions about “just being shy” or “odd” were peeled away.

Dyslexia and Family Connections

You might wonder: does dyslexia skip generations? It usually doesn’t. It’s more common to see a pattern flowing steadily from parent to child. Knowing that can be a relief, because it means if you’ve got it, there’s a chance someone in your family does too.

For many of us, realising this can be a huge “aha” moment. It explains why you or a sibling struggled in school, or why certain relations avoid reading aloud at family gatherings. When you connect those dots, it often lifts a hidden weight.

“Dyslexia is hereditary and often doesn’t skip generations.”

Discovering a Parent’s Hidden Dyslexia

Late diagnosis is more common than you’d think. The speaker didn’t know their father was dyslexic. He didn’t either. Growing up, his blunt speech was written off as a personality trait. Social withdrawal was sometimes chalked up to being moody.

Years later, the speaker’s own diagnosis shed light on where these habits had come from. His dad’s avoidance of certain tasks wasn’t laziness or indifference. It was the frustration of not having the right support or understanding for his learning style.

Seeing that shift in perspective can bring families closer. One conversation can change how you view your parents, siblings, or even your kids. You realise there’s nothing “wrong” with them. Their brains just process information in a different way.

Misunderstood Traits and Social Challenges

Being a bit standoffish doesn’t mean someone doesn’t care. Many dyslexics feel uncomfortable in big social settings where plenty of reading or quick processing is needed. They might hide weaknesses by looking bored or disconnected.

Bluntness can come out of frustration. Sometimes words get jumbled or take extra mental effort, so short sentences feel easier. If dyslexia goes unrecognised, people might label you as rude or abrupt. With awareness, you see there’s a reason behind the talk style.

• Avoiding party invitations could be a sign of social anxiety linked to reading difficulties.
• Blunt remarks might stem from feeling rushed or misunderstood in conversation.
• Keeping quiet may be a way to cope when the conversation moves too fast.

Building Empathy and Self-Discovery

Once you see these traits in yourself or a loved one, you get a chance to rewrite your family narrative. You can talk openly about what’s tricky and what helps. It paves the way for empathy and stronger bonds.

Self-discovery isn’t limited to finding out you’re dyslexic. It also includes learning about who in your life might need a bit of extra patience or support. It’s a reminder that we’re all wired uniquely. When you understand someone’s wiring, you can communicate in ways that truly help.

Consider digging into your own family history. Maybe that uncle who avoided reading in front of everyone was doing his best. Maybe that cousin who always seemed abrupt just needed fewer quick-fire chats. You never know what you’ll uncover until you start asking questions.

• Ask relatives about their experiences in school. Did they struggle with reading?
• Share your own story. Being real encourages others to open up.
• Look for resources on dyslexia testing and adult support services.

Key Takeaways

• Dyslexia is often passed down within families.
• Many adults go undiagnosed for years.
• Misread traits, like bluntness or social withdrawal, may be dyslexia in disguise.
• Raising your own awareness often helps relationships flourish.
• Knowing your family’s learning history can guide you toward useful tools.

If you’re curious, tune in to the full episode at the top of this page. Discover more insights, hear real stories, and learn how you can better support yourself or your loved ones who experience dyslexia.

Visit truthaboutdyslexia.com for more resources. We also invite you to join our Facebook Community at facebook.com/groups/adultdyslexia. We’re all in this together.