Inner Work, Outer Change: Dyslexia & Finding What Really Works With Guy & Suzanne

Have you ever wondered why dyslexia feels like both a challenge and a hidden superpower? This episode of the Truth About Dyslexia podcast dives into exactly that. We speak with Guy and Suzanne Pope-Mayell about the ways COVID-19 changed how parents help their kids, why self-esteem matters more than spelling, and how a little inner work can make a big difference.

By exploring real success stories and practical tips, this conversation highlights the importance of trusting yourself. It also shows that limiting beliefs can hold us back far more than any learning difference. The best part is, with the right support, you can shift from feeling stuck to confident in who you are.

How the Pandemic Changed Parenting

COVID-19 altered many aspects of our lives, but one unexpected effect is how it changed the parent-child relationship around education. Parents became more involved than ever, helping with schoolwork and noticing first-hand where their children excelled—or struggled. For many, it was a wake-up call.

Those who have dyslexic children saw their kids under a new lens. Familiar patterns of forgetfulness or confusion sometimes proved to be little signs that their child learns differently. As Guy and Suzanne mention, once that awareness kicks in, the conversation shifts from “My child’s behind” to “How can I better support their strengths?”

Breaking Down Limiting Beliefs

One of the overarching lessons from this chat is that dyslexia often isn’t the real issue. Negative self-talk and low confidence can create bigger barriers than any reading difficulty. There’s a common belief that dyslexia is a problem to be fixed, but what if it’s a gift that shapes how you see the world?

As Guy shared, “Self-esteem is the only disabling aspect of dyslexia.”

“Self-esteem is the only disabling aspect of dyslexia.”

This single insight can flip your perspective. If you believe in yourself, then you can achieve far more than you imagined. Of course, that’s easier said than done. It’s normal for uncertain thoughts to creep in, especially when you’ve struggled with reading or being misunderstood your whole life. However, once you spot those limiting beliefs, that’s when real change begins.

Neurodiversity as a Gift

We often think of dyslexia, ADHD, and other ways of thinking as problems. Guy and Suzanne see it differently. Neurodiversity can be a powerful advantage when channelled properly. Dyslexic minds often show resilience in the face of adversity. Adapting to a world designed for linear thinkers can lead to remarkable creativity and out-of-the-box solutions.

As parents or adults with dyslexia, it helps to pause and ask: “What unique skills have we gained?” Sometimes, that might be a knack for problem-solving or an empathetic ear because you’ve struggled to fit in. Embracing these gifts can open doors you never knew were there.

Steps to Transform Your Mindset

So, where do you begin if you feel stuck or unsure? According to our guests, you start with two things: a moment of honest self-reflection and a clear intention to change. Identify which beliefs hold you back. It might sound simple, but writing down those worries or limiting thoughts can help you see patterns you didn’t realise were there.

Once those patterns surface, consider looking for the right kind of support. Whether that’s coaching, therapy, hypnosis, or breath work, there are many ways to dismantle old habits. A practitioner who understands dyslexia can guide you through that process with insight and empathy. The key is to make sure it feels aligned with who you are.

Some people find that even a few sessions of coaching can spark big changes. Hypnosis can help break negative thought cycles. Breath work can bring calm to a restless mind. Whatever works for you, aim to build a foundation of self-acceptance before anything else. And remember, it’s never too late for growth.

• COVID-19 caused a shift in parental involvement in education.
• Dyslexia is misunderstood as a problem instead of a talent.
• Self-esteem matters more than any reading or writing skill.
• Negative beliefs often create the biggest barriers.
• Neurodiversity can lead to deeper empathy and original thinking.
• Coaching and hypnosis can replace self-doubt with confidence.
• Finding the right support helps you overcome your sticking points.
• It all begins with recognising the power of intention.

If you’re ready to explore these insights and experiences in more depth, tune in to the full episode at the top of this page. Give it a listen, and discover how you, too, can reshape your beliefs and unlock the hidden gifts of neurodiversity.