Relationships With Dyslexics

Ever wondered what it takes to truly connect with a dyslexic partner? This episode unpacks the little joys and big lessons of navigating a relationship where dyslexia adds its own flavour. You’ll discover what matters most, why you might feel stuck sometimes, and how to move forward together.

In this podcast, we talk about the unspoken needs often lurking beneath the surface, along with practical questions to ask when confusion sets in. Our aim is to help you build an environment where both of you feel heard and supported. If a strong partnership with a dyslexic is your goal, then this discussion is for you.

I go deeper on Dyslexia and Marriage here.

Understanding Dyslexia in Relationships

Dyslexia is so much more than mixing up letters. Our minds work differently. We may see patterns others don’t notice or find solutions that are unexpectedly outside the box. On the flip side, we might mishear instructions or get lost in details. This doesn’t mean we aren’t listening or don’t care. It’s just how our brains spark.

A healthy relationship acknowledges these unique qualities. The secret is embracing each other’s strengths and challenges rather than trying to force a one-size-fits-all mold. This takes a bit of exploration and patience, but the rewards can be huge.

Tailouring Communication

Ever felt like words slip through the cracks? Clear communication can be key to avoiding misunderstandings. Think of it as a dance where you both have to find the right timing and rhythm. Speak openly about whether you prefer written reminders or short voice notes. You’re making it easier for your dyslexic partner to catch the details, and it reduces stress for both of you.

 

“Sometimes it’s not about how many words you say, but how you say them. Slowing down and adding clarity can change everything.”

When communication flows, it becomes a tool for bonding, not a battleground. Authentic conversations can defuse tough moments fast.

Managing Expectations

We often assume others see life exactly as we do. Spoiler alert: they don’t. This is especially true if one of you has dyslexia. Setting realistic expectations together prevents resentment from creeping in.

If your dyslexic partner forgets that dinner reservation, it might have nothing to do with carelessness. It’s about wiring. In these moments, trust that the intention is there. Remember that a simple conversation or practical tools can fill the gap.

Practical Tips to Deepen Connection

Simplicity is gold. If you’re looking for ways to stay on the same page, here are a few tips:

• Agree on a favourite shared app to organise tasks or schedules.
• Use visuals—like post-it notes or a whiteboard—to highlight key points for the week.
• Encourage regular check-ins. A 10-minute ‘touch base’ can reveal small issues before they escalate.
• Celebrate the small victories, like spelling a tricky word right or finishing a puzzle. Tiny moments matter.

Above all, remember that dyslexia brings a unique perspective. Encouraging that viewpoint can take your relationship to a new level because you’ll start seeing the world through each other’s eyes.

Working Through Challenges

There will be days when everything seems off-track. Maybe your dyslexic partner is frustrated with themselves, or you feel stuck in a loop of repeating reminders. These moments are normal. Relationships require consistent effort and empathy, with or without dyslexia in the mix.

Stay open about what you both need. One of you may require data or structure, while the other needs emotional reassurance. Treading that middle ground relies on honest dialogue. Sometimes a trusted counsellor or mentor can also offer fresh insights or practical strategies.

Here are a few key takeaways to remember:

• Dyslexia shapes perception, not commitment.
• Frequent check-ins can prevent large-scale misunderstandings.
• Visual aids make everyday tasks less of a headache.
• Patience and empathy bridge communication gaps.
• Encourage each other’s strengths and celebrate all wins.

Feeling inspired to learn more? Listen to the full episode above and hear firsthand experiences and deeper insights on building a stronger connection. Your relationship is worth it, and we’re here to guide you every step of the way.