10 Great Pieces Of Advice

Have you ever heard a powerful piece of advice, thought it was brilliant, then moved right along without letting it sink in? That happens to me all the time. In the latest podcast episode (player above), I walk through 10 pieces of advice that I know are great but don’t always give enough attention.

I share some of my own dyslexic experiences, mishaps, and lightbulb moments. Sometimes, we all need to see these reminders more than once to let them truly click.

Why These Gems Matter

We’re flooded with advice everywhere we look, but it’s easy to treat it like background noise. I’ve discovered that slowing down to reflect on a few key insights can have a bigger impact on my mindset than loading myself with endless information.

Whether it’s a reminder to be kinder to yourself or a push to see failure differently, these 10 ideas can shift how you approach challenges. If you’re dyslexic or simply have a busy brain, hearing stories from another perspective helps them stick in a way that quick glances never do.

Advice Highlights from the Episode

I spent time diving into each of these points in the podcast. Here’s a quick overview of the 10 pieces of advice I discuss:

1. Skills stack on top of each other and produce bigger returns than if you simply focused on one skill alone.
2. If you want to feel terrible, keep comparing yourself to people who are doing “better.”
3. We need to be reminded more than we need to be taught.
4. Long after we’re gone, values stay eternal. The marks we make live on in how we live, not just in what we do.
5. Failure is expected, not something to avoid. It tells you what needs tweaking, not that you should give up.
6. If someone won’t give you a eulogy, don’t let them talk you down while you’re alive.
7. Change how you speak and you’ll change how you live.
8. We want the freedom to choose what we do, not freedom from doing anything at all.
9. Much of what holds us back is invisible, like limiting beliefs. Sometimes you need a friend or mentor to point this out.
10. Hurt doesn’t always mean evil. Pain can be a teacher, not an enemy.

One line from the episode that really stuck with me was:

We need to be reminded more than we need to be taught.

I love this because, for many of us, the challenge isn’t that we don’t know what to do. It’s that we forget the right steps when stress or distractions creep in.

My Dyslexic Perspective

As someone with dyslexia, I often find it strenuous to absorb powerful ideas on the first go. I might read a quote, agree it’s meaningful, then watch it slip by in a matter of seconds. Giving myself small reminders throughout the week helps stop these insights from fading.

For example, I know that “failure is feedback” is absolutely true, yet I sometimes feel a bit crushed if something goes wrong. I have to remind myself that the failure is telling me to adjust tactics, not that I’m incapable. Relearning that has been huge for me.

The concept of “skills stacking” is another favourite. Many of us can speak passionately about what we do, but we forget that each skill we’ve gained in life combines to form something unique. You might be great at logic, a decent communicator, and a quick learner. Those three small skills together can have a massive impact. It’s like adding layers to a cake, each layer making the final creation richer.

Shifting Your Inner Dialogue

How often do you catch yourself saying, “Oh, I’m just not good at that”? It’s a subtle phrase, yet it can shape your actions. Changing how we speak to ourselves can be key to unlocking new possibilities. There’s good reason to believe that words are powerful, especially for those of us who process information differently.

When someone tries to speak over you or undermine you, remember that they won’t likely deliver your eulogy. Don’t let them have free rein in your mind. It’s normal to hear people’s criticisms, but you get to choose what to believe or dismiss.

That’s why a simple shift in your daily internal conversation can produce real results. Instead of “I can’t do that,” try “I can learn this.” Instead of “Everyone is succeeding but me,” think, “I can celebrate others while also carving my own path.” These small language shifts help rewire your thoughts and reduce anxiety around your dyslexia or any other trait you might see as a limitation.

It’s also important to distinguish pain from evil. Not everything that hurts is your enemy. Going to the gym can hurt. Having a tough conversation can feel like a punch in the gut. But growth happens in those moments, and that’s an invaluable lesson.

From Limiting Beliefs to Tangible Change

Challenging limiting beliefs can feel uncomfortable, so it’s easy to ignore them. But it’s worth stepping outside your comfort zone. If you suspect a belief is holding you back, find someone who can offer an unbiased perspective. Humility is your friend here.

Many of us want the freedom to choose what we do. It doesn’t mean we’re trying to escape all responsibilities. It means we want the autonomy to pick where we invest our time and energy. This is where stacking skills and fine-tuning your self-talk can pay off. You keep expanding your range of choices, and confidence rises as well.

Remember that failing at something new is not a final verdict. A failure can be a fresh data point. It simply shows you which buttons need pressing and which knobs to tweak. That’s how progress happens.

• Reflect on which skill you’re improving right now and see how it might enhance your other strengths.
• Pay attention to your self-talk when you’re feeling down—could your words be inflating those feelings?
• Admit that “failure is feedback” and spot how it helps you adapt more quickly.
• Take a second look at any limiting beliefs. Ask a trusted friend if you’re missing something obvious about yourself.
• Ease into realising that pain isn’t always evil. Sometimes it’s the signpost you need to move forward.

If any of these points resonate, I invite you to revisit the full podcast episode (remember, the player is at the top of this page) for deeper insights and my personal stories. Hearing someone break down these ideas can spark the “aha” moment you might not get from reading them alone.

Keep in mind that small changes in perspective can accumulate. Skills truly do stack, and every little bit of awareness makes a difference. Don’t let these pointers slip by unnoticed—give yourself the space to explore them this week.

I hope you’ve found something here worth holding onto. If you want more backstory, jokes about my own dyslexic struggles, or just a friendly voice cheering you on, tune in to the full podcast. It’s always a joy to share these journeys together.

Ready for more? Hit play and immerse yourself in the full conversation now.